There have been a thousand or more articles written about how to have a successful long-term relationship, but none that like to capture or catch some of the basic components we have found important in relationships. That is merely not true.
The grass always looks greener in other people’s lives, because few people share the truth of the amount of work that goes into relationships. Relationships even the best relationships in the world need continuous attention, nurturing, and work. If you can understand and accept the need for continuous attention and work in your relationship, you are started in the right direction. There are a lot of firsts that come with being in a relationship. And no, I don’t mean your first time having sex, I mean many others. After all, you are going to spend a lot of time with them, doing a lot of things that you are not comfortable doing. We don’t see those parts of the relationship in the media, it is not as colorful or pretty as the rest. But it’s just as important. One artist realized the importance of it. Flo Perry created a series of important firsts that long-term couples go through. They may be not so attractive but they are really important signs/milestones.
1. The first bail
When you chose to get food over having sex.
2. First time testing body for health
When you very unconscious about your health and tell your bae to check you.
3. Finding attractive each other even in ugly underwear
When you want your bae to admire you in your ugliest underwear.
4. Same house as your parents
When you have a sex in your childhood bedroom and suddenly your mum get up to check you.
5. Trying a new position
While having a sex, when you try a new pose for sex to enjoy it more but actually it sucks.
When you have a plan to go on a date tonight but you ditch it just for a food.
7. Dirty talks
When your conversations are more important than your personal things. You have dirty talks while one of you is peeing and the other one listens to you.
8. Getting ill at the first time
This is so adorable when one of you is puking and the other one is looking after like no ones else does.
9. Giving up slamming for more sleep
When you both stay over but don’t have sex.
10. First fart
When you have first fat in front of your bae. Your bae seems like that nothing happened.