I think oral sex is definitely one of the things that you shouldn’t skip on when the action gets hot in the bedroom. It doesn’t just help take her pleasure levels off the charts, but keeps you lasting longer while at it.
Totally a win-win situation, right?
But a lot of men tend to make this rather simple mistake that can ruin the whole experience for her. And it’s even possible that you’re guilty of making this one, too. I suggest you keep on reading to get to the bottom of this problem.
So here’s the situation…
Now while you may already have a few tricks up your sleeve that will really get your wife, girlfriend or lover going when you explore south of her border, you’re simply noticing that she’s not as excited for oral sex like she used to these days.
Sure this may be rather frustrating for you, but chances are you’re just making a simple mistake that keeps her from really looking forward to oral action in bed. Make sure you follow along to find out more…
At its simplest, giving a woman an oral sex session that will knock her socks off involves pleasuring her erogenous zones down there like the clitoris, vulva and inner thighs the right way.
If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that pulling the whole thing off basically involves giving the clitoris the time it needs to get ready as well as making it a point to go slow and easy in the first few minutes to really get her other erogenous zones down there on track to producing the maximum pleasurable sensations that they’re capable of.
Given that you’ve already got these two in your checklist when you go down on your wife, girlfriend or lover, here’s a mistake that I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that may be dampening her excitement for oral sex nowadays…
You’re doing the same things over and over each time you take a sensual trip to her nether regions.
See, the brain is the one regulating the levels of pleasurable sensations that are going to be released when you work your magic south of her border. If it detects that the techniques you’re doing are repetitive, it tends to reduce the amount of pleasurable sensations that will be set off during the action, giving your partner the notion that what you’re doing is dull and boring.
Fixing this problem isn’t as complicated as you think, too. You simply have to keep in mind to mix things up each time you go down on her. Besides varying the techniques you use as well as the amount of pressure you apply, focusing on different erogenous zones while you’re at it also helps a lot.